I am alive! June 25, 2009
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I wanted to let everyone know that I am very sorry for not updating my posts or checking comments over that past few months. I did warn you I have major ADD sprinkled with a touch of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder so I’m not that sorry
I completely neglected this blog for way too long. I wanted to let everyone know my wife and I are still swinging. I have a few posts that I wrote a couple of months ago but never published I will get up soon. I also have some interesting new stuff to add. Stay tuned and as always thanks for reading and commenting.
-KinkyGeek
You want to do what? August 27, 2008
Posted by KG in Uncategorized.Tags: anal, Dirty Wife, fucking, mmf, oral, Sex, swapper, Swappers, Swinger, swingers, threesome
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First I want to thank everyone for their comments and advice. I really appreciate that someone would take time out of their day to read my posts and to actually comment. You give me the focus and motivation I need to keep posting my twisted thoughts and sexual adventures.
Anyway, It’s been over a month since the last time we swung with Sara and Ron. We still chat regularly but our personal and work schedules have been out of sync. Laura and I haven’t had a night out together without the kids in a real long time and its been straining our relationship. That coupled with the fact that the summer is winding down and Laura has been running out of things for the kids to do during the day have put a lot of stress on her.
Friday night we went over her parents house with the kids for a little pizza. Her aunt and uncle were over and everyone was having a good time. The nights were starting to get a little crisp and we all sat outside by the fire pit. I smoked a toothy Nicaraguan cigar with Laura’s uncle while she sat with her aunt and mother venting about the kids, the dog, and life in general. She was kicking back the beers with ease and before long it was time to get the kids home to bed.
We got home way past the kids bed time and Laura and I had a few more cocktails when we got home. At this point Laura was pretty buzzed. We watched a few Live Sex Cam shows on SwapperNet and she dropped a bomb.
“Joe wants to know how he can submit his application for the MMF (Male-Male-Female Threesome)?”, she said casually as she made her way to the kitchen to get another drink.
“What! I don’t know. Why? When did you talk about this with him? Was is recent?”, I replied in shock.
…A little background info on Joe.
Joe is a guy that Laura worked with at her last job. He is in his late thirties, tall, dark and handsome. He is unhappily married and apparently his wife never gives him sex. Laura doesn’t really inform me when or how much they still chat but I do know that they Instant Message each other during the day and occasionally call each other on their cell phones. Once in a while Laura goes out with her old friends from work and he is always one of the three or four guys she hangs out with. I have only met him once or twice and in general I don’t know much about him or any of the people she hangs out with. A few years ago I found love letters to my wife from one of her old work friends. It almost broke us apart when I threatened to leave and to call the guys wife. Long story short we worked it out and have been mending our relationship ever since.
… Back to the story
“He mentioned it a while ago…”, she said dodging my question
“What about his wife?”, I asked
She is a bitch, she never gives him sex, and he’s unhappy.
When my best friend was unhappy with his wife and was testing the waters by going out to bars and talking to other women you called him an asshole, I replied. Now your friend wants to have sex with you without his wife knowing and that is okay? I don’t get it.
“I am very attracted to him and I’ve fantasized about being with him for some time now.”, she said quietly. She was clearly feeling good from her liquid courage.
I would consider it but honestly I have some reservations. Since you already told me you are attracted to him what happens when I am not home and you just need someone to fuck? What happens if you become more attracted to him and want him instead of me? It could be fun there are just so many what if’s including the fact that he is MARRIED!
What would you say if I told you I wanted to have a threesome with Mrs X? (The sexy chick I work with who knows we are swingers)
Hell No. Over my dead body! I hate her but I would have a threesome with Sara or Beth. I wouldn’t be jealous with them…
So maybe it was the alcohol or maybe Laura is finally feeling more comfortable talking about what she really wants. This is a side of her I’ve never seen and it kinda turned me on.
“Are we going upstairs to fuck or not?”, she asked. She was already dashing up the stairs to put fresh batteries in her favorite toy. I ran up the stairs behind her taking two at a time. When I arrived in the bedroom she was already naked with toy in hand.
“Get licking”, she said laughing as she spread her pussy lips for me. I wasted no time, pants already crumpled in a mound on the floor I dove in and went to town. I licked her and did the “alphabet” as her request. I also fucked her with her dildo while i licked her clit. It drove her wild. Next I made her suck my cock like she did to Ron. She has most certainly improved in the oral department but it didn’t last long. We had wild passionate sex in every position. When she was on top riding my cock she started moaning and telling me how much she wanted Joe’s cock in her ass.
You can have Jeremy’s cock in your ass if you want.”, I said. I know he isn’t that big. Do you even know how big Joe is?
I don’t. She moaned once more as her pussy contracted on my hard cock squeezing it and begging for it to cum. You are going to need some practice if you are going to lose your anal virginity. I pushed her off of me and told her to get in the doggy position. I got one of our anal butt plugs, lubed it up and pushed it deep into her ass. She came again instantly. We continued to play with toys and finally I exploded deep insider her.
We haven’t talked about Joe since but the thought of her getting all turned on and the fact that she had the courage to share her fantasy with me made me happy. I am really unsure about actually doing anything with him. Stay tuned.
Sunday Night Swap August 20, 2008
Posted by KG in Uncategorized.Tags: doggy style, drinking, ffm, full swap, open marriage, oral, Sex, sex position, swap, Swappers, Swinger, swingers, Swinging, threesome, wife swap
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I’m sorry I haven’t written in a really long time, however, I did say I have a bad case of ADD and I tend to go hot and cold with these type of things. Work is a mess and family life is just as hectic. I did want to write about our second swinging experience so….here we go…
A few Sunday’s Ago
This afternoon we went over Laura’s parents house to swim in the pool and to visit. It was so hot that you could actually see the humidly cling to the asphalt and hang in the air. It’s great to get outside and spend time at the pool with the kids and these are the days I long for in the dead of winter. Laura and I had a few margaritas and had a blast jumping in and out of the pool with the kids. While we were both doing a great job at chilling out and getting buzzed from her moms potent cocktails, we were also a bit apprehensive about tonight. This was the first time we were hosting Sara and Ron (or anyone for that matter) for a little adult fun at our house. Laura also had a lot on her minda since she has been planning for a important business trip all month.
We arrived home at almost 5:30. We had less than an hour to get the kids undressed and in their jammies, cook dinner, and shower before our guests arrived. Honestly, I was starting to get nervous. Am I really going to do this I thought? What if I can’t get hard or I get jealous? Do Laura and I need code words to communicate how we are feeling at any given point? My mind was swirling. Am I seriously this buzzed?
I got the kids situated with a movie and a bucket of pop corn and sent them down stairs to the theatre. Moments later Sara and Ron arrived. He looked just like i pictured him. Tall and skinny with a goatee and his hair pulled back in a pony tail. He looked vaguely like a lead singer from a band but I just can’t put my finger on it. He was dressed very casual with tan cargo shorts and a T shirt and some new Airwalk kicks. She was a little different than I had remembered. She was almost as tall as me with long auburn or dirty blonde hair. She wore tight fitting jeans with a button fly and a sexy T shirt with a black fishnet shawll. Her face was delicate and sublte. Her long hair fell across one side of her face and her smile and eyes were infectous. She definately seemed more attractive than the last time I saw her. We all sat down at the kitchen table and chatted while the kids were watching their movie in the basement. It funny when you have swingers over to your house how quickly conversation turns to sex.
“We went to a party last night and stayed till 4 AM.” Sara was telling Laura in her breathy voice. They had a nice pool and people were camping at thier house but it wasn’t really that fun. Some of the games were interesting. The dildo relay race was a big hit!
Ummm did she just say Dildo relay race? I thought to myself as I was taking food out of the fridge to cook on the grill?
I took it easy on the alcohol since I was still feeling buzzed. I took a bottled water from the fridge hoping it would calm my nerves and help me sober up. We cooked burgers on the grill and I made summer corn on the cob with some potato salad. I wasn’t really in the mood to eat dinner. My stomach was doing back flips and I overcooked my burger so I only ate about half of it. After everyone was finished eating the kids came upstairs and Laura and I got them to bed. I had an opportunity to talk with Laura upstairs while we were alone but at this point everything was going smoothly. We were having good conversation – mostly about sex but we discussed other things. Things seemed natural and we never even discussed what was about to happen.
Laura knew what she wanted. She wanted Ron. She wore a sexy black polo shirt with no bra. We keep our house cold so it wasn’t long before you could see her tight little nipples poke through. She also wore a short little miniskirt with no panties on underneath.
We decided after dinner to move the party downstairs. We all filed into the theatre and things started to get a little awkward (for me at least). Our home theatre has two row of seats. There are three seats in the back row and three seats in the front row. I was last to enter the theatre and Laura and Ron were already getting comfy in the back row. We put music on and again conversation quickly turned to sex. I was sitting in the front row with Sara and out of the corner of my eye I caught Laura and Ron touching and whispering. Laura had a blanket on her lap and I was wondering what was going on underneath.
We spent about a hour down there until Laura exclaimed, “Lets get this party started. Lets put a porno on the big screen.”
I laughed nervously. Okay I replied. Let me get the collection.
I ran upstairs to get our personal stash of porn. I came down with about a dozen DVD’s in hand.
“Oooohhh Porn.”, Sara moaned. Is that your entire collection?
Yeah, I hesitated. Why?
“Its so small. I can’t believe thats all you have. Ron and I have a whole drawer full at home. Let’s see what you got. You can tell a lot about someone by the type of smut they watch. She said with a wink.
We had a lengthy discussion about our likes and dislikes with regards to porno. I learned that some porno’s loop certain clips to make them longer. I also learned that “Bi” in the title of a Porno refers to Guy-Guy action and NOT Girl-Girl. (Apparently the Girl-Girl is a given) Laura was getting anxious to either fuck or to have our guests get the fuck out. Is everything okay? She mouthed to me when no one was looking, I was feeling a little better although I still couldn’t tell where Sara’s head was. I’m good. I mouthed back to Laura. It was getting late and it was time to make my move.
Sara and I were standing up near the back of the theatre. I inched closer to her and finally reached in for a kiss. It was amazing. I know I am really naive when it comes to this type of shit but Instantly I knew where Sara’s head was at. She was feeling me up and kissing me passionately. She was aggressive and a deep kisser. Lets move over to the front row of seats I suggested. As soon as she sat down I leaned in again for a kiss. First, I brushed her long hair to one side and kissed her on the neck. She moaned and kissed me again deeper than before. She got up and straddled me on my seat. As she was getting positioned I caught a glimpse of Laura going down on Ron. Sara mounted me up and took her top off. I caressed her breasts while we kissed some more. It was not an ideal seating position since she couldn’t really spread her legs enough to grind on my cock but we made due. I moved to Sara’s nipples. I licked and sucked each nipple teasing each with flicks of my tongue. Sara was aggressive which I like. She wasted no time. She got up and pulled off my shorts and boxers like a pro. Moments later she attacked my cock like a cheetah. I was still a little nervous and uneasy that I couldn’t see what Laura was doing behind us but Sara put my mind at ease.
I have never had a better blow job in my life. It was amazing. She started off by taking the whole cock in her mouth. It wasn’t fully hard but it didn’t take long before it was. Soon she was alternating between taking the entire shaft deep inside her warm wet mouth and teasing the throbbing head with her tongue while she milked my shaft. She kept going up and down the shaft and twisting with her hands, then she would tease the balls then back to deep throat. It felt awesome. I could have definately cum in her mouth which she later told me she would have liked but I felt like I needed to make her cum first.
At this point Laura was bent over the first row of seats and she was getting banged doggy style by Ron. I thought I would be jealous as hell but in all honesty I was beyond it. If anything I was getting more turned on. I told Sara that I wanted to do the same thing to her and she nodded as she assumed the position. I had a bitch of a time getting the condom on. I borrowed one of Ron’s and it was too tight for my cock. I started fucking Sara doggy style but before long my hard on was rapidly leaving.
This is NOT fucking happening I thought to myself!!! Laura and I have been together for over twelve years and I can count the times we have used condoms together on one hand. We both hate them and we have always been monogamous so we never had a need. Sara sensing my frustration and guilt said it was okay and began sucking me again.
“I hope you know I am going above and beyond”, she said. I hate the taste of latex!
When I was hard again I decided we needed another position. We moved over to the floor in the front of the theatre and by this time Laura and Ron were finished fucking. Ron left the room and I motioned to Laura to come over and help me take care of Sara. I licked Sara’s completely shaved pussy while Laura and her made out. She was right. Yuck. The taste of latex was not at all pleasant. Nevertheless I was getting super turned watching Laura and Sara kiss. I tried another condom and unfortunately the same thing happened. The condom choked off my hard on and I couldn’t finish. I can’t believe this is happening. In my disgust I removed the condom and tossed it to the side. WTF am I going to do I thought.
Laura was straddled over Sara’s mouth as Sara was lying on her back on the floor. It was quite a sight. Laura had her miniskirt on with no panties and Sara was taking some liberties with her already wet pussy. Once again my cock was hard and I was determined to cum. I approached Laura from behind and slid my cock into her. She was soaking wet from her orgasm(s) with with Ron and from Sara’s tongue. I pushed my cock deep inside her soaking pussy as I was kneeling behind her while Sara was licking us both. Her tongue slid over my shaft and Laura’s clit as I was fucking my wife. It felt amazing and I would have loved to cum.
“You need to fuck Sara”, Laura whispered in my ear as I was fucking her from behind. Cmon!
I took yet another condom and started to fuck Sara. She was still on her back and I rubbed my cock on her clit. I could feel my shaft slowly deflate like one of those balloons that the creepy clowns make into shapes for little kids. I was inside her for a few moments and she was really tight. I slowly pumped in and out and was getting into a good rhythm when I lost it. Despite the fact that both of my knees were losing chunks of skin on the new carpet (Apparently the rug wasn’t as soft of as comfortable as I had envisioned) I could have pressed on. That was until I looked a few feet from Sara’s head and I was mortified to see a chunk of dog poo laying on the carpet. I knew I caught a foul whiff of something but this was the final straw.
I can’t do this! I said. There is a chunk of poo by your head, I can’t deal with these condoms and I can’t feel my legs.
I felt horrible. Really really horrible. I wanted to give Sara at least one orgasm but between the condoms not fitting and killing my wood, my nerves, dog poo, and the fact that chunks of skin were missing from both of my knees I had to pull the plug. After our guests left I finally got to cum with my wife. She let me fuck her on our nice comfy bed and it was wonderful.
Three Weeks Later
We still talk to Sara and Ron almost every day although we haven’t seen each other since. Laura and Ron text message each other all the time and Sara and I chat via Yahoo Instant Messenger or on our Cell Phones. Sara has been insanely cool abou the entire episode. She told me that the husband of the first couple they swung with had the same problem and that I needed to experiemnt with different brand condoms to find one that fits. It also doesnt hurt if you practice with Laura once in a while she explained. I am not sure if the physical attraction between Sara and I is really there. She is not as hot as my wife by any strecth of the imagination but we really click in a intellectual level. I know that she is in to my since she is always asking to “fuck” and she has told me she would love to have me cum in her mouth and she would even consider giving my anal. I don’t know I am just not sure. I would really like to meet up with a few of the other people I have met online who I think I would be a little more physically attracted to but who knows at this point. In the next days and weeks I will try and get a handle on where we stand with Sara and Ron and where Laura and I want to take this new found hobby of ours.
A letter to my wife August 8, 2008
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To my best friend,
Funny how time flies. I can remember sitting in my bedroom over ten years ago typing you love letters on my computer. I’ve always been a geek and my typing skills are still way better than my embarrassingly weak chicken scratch. It’s amazing to sit back and reflect on how much our lives have changed in a single decade. Yeah I said it. Decade! Face it we’re getting old…
Every day I am grateful that I met my best and one true friend at such an early age. We may not always see eye to eye but you have always given me the freedom to grow and explore areas of myself I have never known. I understand that having a husband dive head first into a being a Vegetarian, PETA Supporting, political news junkie hasn’t been easy. I appreciate that you were always there with me making your opinions abundantly clear. You should know you are an amazing person. J and C are lucky to have a mom like you. As they grow older they will look back and be thankful that they had a mother who sacrificed her career to spend every waking moment caring for them and nurturing them. I know I don’t say it often enough but you are the love of my life and I will love you till the end of time.
I have done a lot of thinking over the last week. A lot! For one, it seems like you have been gone for a month now. I am not sure what I would do without you. Our new experiences together have also had my brain working on overdrive. One thing is for certain. I feel closer to you than I have in a long time! I don’t know what it is but immediately after our experiences, I feel this intense emotional connection with you. It feels like the nervous, excited, all consuming flood of emotions I experienced when we first stated dating but yet different. I’ve been dying to share how I’ve been feeling but we have been so busy and you’re in Boston for the week so I figured it was best to write it down.
Sex in any marriage can be a sensitive subject. I would suspect that many marriages have failed due to one or both partners being unhappy in the sex department. Some people might end up silently resenting their partner and others may resort to having affairs and leading a double life; lying to the ones they are supposed to love the most. I can say with absolute certainty that I have and never will be that person. I love you too much and would never want to hurt you. One thing that has made our relationship great is that we’ve always been open and honest with each other. I never want that to change and in fact, I want it to get better. For me, swinging has really got me in touch with how I am feeling and I think we have been more open with each other than ever. As long as we are together, I hope you know that there is nothing you should feel scared, ashamed or embarrassed to tell me. As long as you want to be with me and we talk about what we are feeling how can things ever go wrong?
Reflecting back on our new experiences, I think I’ve finally admitted to myself that I’ve been jealous you have been with other people before me. It was nothing that I consciously admitted to myself but I think its always made me feel like I was inferior in a way. It is extremely liberating to know that you were there with me when I had the chance to experience another woman. I feel like a weight has been lifted from my shoulders yet in a way I also feel bad. I was really upset that I couldn’t finish with Sara. In some ways it makes me feel like less of a man as stupid as that may seem. When you were kissing and holding Ron on the back row of the theatre I felt my stomach clench up in knots. I was jealous because you are so sexy and hot and I felt that you were out to get what you wanted that night. I think I was still a little unsure of what I was expecting that night. Even so, I also feel slightly bad for enjoying watching you get fucked by him. You looked so hot bent over the front row; I wanted to take you then and there.
I have read about couples who enjoy seeing their partners have their sexual fantasies filled by another person or couple. On one level it seems incredibly hot and liberating but it also just doesn’t seem natural and it certainly wasn’t how I was raised. I think part of the allure for me is that I have been doing things I never thought I would do. To be honest, if you told me a year ago that I would be going to swinger parties and getting blow jobs from chicks I wasn’t married to, I would have asked you what you were smoking. It’s also been fun to see you getting all turned on and hopefully having some of your fantasies come true. It’s definitely been a trip but sometimes I don’t know. I think I would feel better if I knew that you were turned on by seeing me with another person even if you may be consumed by jealousy at first. There are just so many things swimming through my mind I can’t focus.
Whatever comes of this I want you to know that I am more in love with you than ever before. I missed you terribly this week and I hope you had a blast in Boston. You worked so hard on everything and you really deserved to have a great time. Hopefully now we can spend more time “talking” and “Snuggling”. I love you so much.
The Rules….For now. July 18, 2008
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Last night Laura and I finally had a chance to talk. We made plans to host Sara and Ron at out house on Sunday night and I still wanted to get a few things off my chest from this weekend. I thought it would be a good time to discuss what I perceive as the rules of our playtime. I borrowed a lot of these from Swingerwife but I would imagine most of them are pretty standard in the swinging world.
1) Both of us have absolute veto power over who we play with. If one of us is not attracted to the couple in question, or we feel that there is no chemistry, then we don’t play with them. Period.
2) Either one of us has the right to “pull the plug” at any time, for any reason. Even if one (or both) of us is in the middle of playing; if the other says stop, we stop, end of story. For that matter, if one of us no longer wants to see a couple that we have played with, then its over.
Apparently Laura doesn’t get this one. She asked what happens if she is mid sex with another person and she wanted to know why she should stop. Sometimes she really amazes me. Ultimately she ended up agreeing with this one.
3) No means no. This is the be-all, end-all rule in all swinging situations. No pressure, no forced anything, ever.
4) We do not compare our playmates to each other. This is hurtful and not necessary. The whole point of swinging is so that we can experience and enjoy other partners who will have different ways of doing things in bed.
We both agree that sometimes it’s fun to discuss what the other partner was doing and what we liked and what we disliked. I don’t think this is a hard and fast rule but obviously other peoples feelings are involved here so a little tact and sensitivity is in order.
5) Open and honest communication is an absolute must at all times. It is the only way that this sort of thing works.
6) In play itself, anything pretty much goes as long as our partners are comfortable with it.
7) We will not play without our partner present. Laura and I would both prefer that the people we play with be our friends. We are not talking about becoming BFF’s but it is certainly important to click outside of the bedroom. A casual night out for dinner and drinks can be great foreplay. If you have been reading my Blog you know that Laura met with Sara and Ron this past weekend while I was away. I was a little uneasy about it. I decided that play would be defined as kissing, touching, oral, or any other intercourse.
“Ahhh I can’t even kiss?”, Laura sighed after reading the rules.
“Hell no! How would you feel if I was kissing another chick while you were away? I KNOW you wouldn’t be happy.”, I said.
Okay. Fine. What else can’t I do?
What do you want to do?”, I said half laughing half shocked that she was so into this.
Are Web Cams off limits?”, She replied
Uhhhhhh no I guess web cams are cool. Why? Do you have something to tell me?
I ahhh well I like to watch guys on web cams.
What What What? Since when?
Well you can watch them on SwapperNET.
Serious? No Shit…So have you?
“I watched Ron today.” , Laura said softly.
It’s cool. It on the acceptable list!
7) Respect and honor all rules that the couples that we play with have with each other.
Safe sex ALWAYS! Condoms are used at all times. We are both
9) We will only have sex with our partner in the same room.
I told Laura I could possibly be persuaded to break this rule depending on the situation but for now I would feel more comfortable with her in the room.
Okay. I am relieved. We both agreed on the rules. Some people <Cough> Laura <Cough> were more reluctant than others. I tried to get her to sign her initials next to each rule (joking) but I was told that “Rules were meant to be Broken”. After we discussed the rules we had some amazing sex. I am a little nervous about Sunday but….I can’t wait!
Thanks for the advice. July 15, 2008
Posted by KG in Uncategorized.Tags: love, marriage, open, Relationship, swapper, Swappers, Swinger, Swinging
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I had a couple of days to digest the fact that Laura hung out with Sara and Ron at our house ALONE on Saturday night. I want to thank SwingerWife and the Issuedwife on their comments to my last post. It is always nice to get a fresh perspective on something and your comments really helped bring me focus. Anyways I am completely over it. I spent some time talking with Laura yesterday. Since I am in Maine with my Parents and Kids lacking the slightest shred of privacy I had to do most of the talking through Instant Messenger. This whole swinging experience has me in touch with a side of myself that I have never experienced. I feel so connected to Laura and in tune with her feelings. Lets face it we have been together a long time. We have practically been joined at the hip since Freshman year in college. I’ll admit It. I am guilty of not telling her how much I love her and occasionally taking her for granted. I could have asked her to share her feeling more. It’s a lot different now.
I find myself asking her how she is feeling A LOT. More than anything now I want to make sure she is happy. When we talked yesterday we simply agreed that if this was going to work we need to communicate with each other and be as open as we have ever been. I completely agree and you know what? Its refreshing. We have always been best friends and we tell each other everything but sometimes out of embarrassment or fear we hold back. No more. Most of the things I don’t tell her are about sex. How much I masterbate, what I like sexually, what kinds of porn I like, etc. I am not sure she is looking for that level of honesty but LOOK OUT cuz here it comes! We decided we would sit down when I get back from vacation and hash out the details. I can’t wait.
I’ve created a monster. July 13, 2008
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Fuck Me. I am filled with so many emotions I don’t quite know how to put them into words. Fuck comes to mind. What the fuck have I got myself into comes a close second.
I reluctantly decided to take the kids on vacation for a long weekend in Maine with my parents. A friend of the family has a nice little home bordering a beautiful national park and only miles from the beach. My family is crazy about the kids and they really wanted me to bring the kids to Maine. Personally I have a shit load of work to do but I decided I would take my thinkpad and work from the beach. I really respect the fact that my parents want to spend so much time with their grandchilden. They are crazy about them. If my dad doesn’t see the kids at least three or four times a week he gets grouchy. My mother feels the same way. When I mentioned to Laura that my parents wanted us to go away with them she immediately rejected the idea. She had committed to baby sit a friends one year old boy for the week and we have a dog so putting her in a kennel for a few days costs a small fortune.
We spent a good part of the day today driving. Traffic was horrible. All the bostonians were heading up north for a spectacular summer weekend. We didn’t arrive in Maine till almost 1:00PM. Laura called me minutes after we arrived.
“I thought you were going to call me when you got to Maine?”, she asked.
We are just pulling in now. We hit traffic but the kids have been great! I told her. What are your plans today?
Sara and Ron want me to go to the movies with them. – I was hurt
“Oh really. I kinda figured they would reach out to you”.
I lied. I really didn’t think that Sara or Ron would betray my trust like that. I flat out told Sara a few days earlier that I was uncomfortable with the idea of meeting separately. I also told Laura that the idea of meeting separately kinda freaked me out. She said something to the effect that, “We were fucking other people in front of each other. What is the difference if we are in a different room?. I makes sense but it doesnt.
“Are you mad at me? They are bringing their son. It’s not a big deal plus I am all by myself and I am bored” she replied.
“I am not mad. You can go if you want”. She knew just how to diffuse my anger.
We said our goodbyes. We told each other that we love each other and at this point I was okay that she was going out with friends. I mean they had their kid with them so it wasn’t a big deal right?
Maine sucks. We tried to go to the beach but there was no parking and we were starving. We ending up driving around for an hour and ate at this shitty little pub / pizza shop. After lunch we went grocery shopping and headed back to the house. For dinner we drove around for another hour. We scarfed down a few lobster rolls with way too much bread and way too little mayo or seasoning and went to play mini golf with the kids. When we got back to the house and got the kids settled it was almost dark. I started a nice little fire in the pit in the backyard and called Laura to see how the movie was. She answered the phone and I could hear people in the background. A surge of jealousy flashed through my body. I could feel my ears getting red and my stomach was in knots.
“Sara and Ron are here with me. I wanted to show them the house and the home theater. Are you mad at me?”, she said cautiously.
I was mad at her. Really mad. I could barely speak and had to struggle to keep my composure and keep a civil conversation. I told her I was cool and that I trusted her. We said I love you and I told her I would tallk to her later. I spent most of the night outside by myself by the fire. I smoked a cigar and had a couple of Bud Lights and tried to reflect on how I felt about her with our new swinger friends ALONE at our house. My mind was blank. I couldn’t think. I smoked my Cigar and figured I would IM her a little later tonight when, hopefully the guest were gone.
Well. I did IM her at almost ten o’clock and this is what happened…….
Laura: Hey baby wanna fuck
KinkyGeek: lmao
KinkyGeek: nice
Laura: Who do you think this is?
KinkyGeek: no clue
Laura: Take a guess.
KinkyGeek: hmmmmmmm maybe my wife?
Laura: Um, no.
KinkyGeek: Sara?
Laura: Very good. you get a cookie.
Laura: Or anything else you want.
KinkyGeek: lol. What did you move in?
Laura: PS I’m drunk.
KinkyGeek: I am not
Laura: yeah, Ron says we’re waiting for you to get home.
Laura: Laura says to be sure to let you know that nothing’s going on.
Laura: You aren’t really mad are you? I heard her on the phone with you and I don’t want you to be mad.
KinkyGeek: um kay….gonna have to wait till wednesday
Laura: Nothings going on except a lot of drinking and chatting.
KinkyGeek: thats cool. I am sure you and I will chat when she is in Boston
Laura: Oh yea. Let’s CHAT. ” “
KinkyGeek: oh we will
Laura: Chat *in person* you mean?
KinkyGeek: oh yes
Laura: Laura says we’ll take you to the movies.
Laura: Gotta a web cam?
KinkyGeek: so. I dont wanna see everyone sloppy drunk & NAKED while my parents are around
Laura: Aww.
Laura: You have a ncie house, btw.
KinkyGeek: spanks
Laura: We’re not naked btw. Unless you want us to be.
Laura: We could be naked, though
Laura: errr
Laura: shit
Laura: i’m drunk.
Laura: Forgive me.
KinkyGeek: ooooh I am sure you could but then I would be jealous
Laura: Don’t be jealous ’cause really we
Laura: WANT” Y”OU” HERE
Laura: Laura says she hopes you trust her enough to know she’s not doing anything
Laura: you konw, unless you want her to be.,…..
KinkyGeek: I do trust her…I just didnt wanna miss out on the fun
Laura: Does that mean we can do stuff to her and then catch you up later?
KinkyGeek: lol
KinkyGeek: I gotta go….rents are coming down to watch tv with me
Laura: oh dear
Laura: don’t leave us!
KinkyGeek: catch up on ya later
Laura: Ok, have fun.
KinkyGeek: you too
I really need some advice here. I know a few people read this blog and a perhaps a few seasoned swingers. What should I make of this while situation? I am fucking lost. I am so jealous. I don’t know that I actually trust Laura 100% especially when she has a few drinks in her. I will keep everyone posted… Not sure how I am going to sleep tonight.
Lets get it on! July 10, 2008
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Tonight Lara and I went to dinner without the kids. It was a much deserved break for the two of us. At dinner we had a casual conversation but topics quickly turned to swinging. We use code for web sites and people so it is real cute and fun trying to mask our public conversations. I met a new couple online yeasterday and we have been trading E-Mails and pictures. The wife is much hotter than Sara (the couple that introduced us to the “lifestyle”). She has long blonde hair with neat bangs that lie flat on her forehead. She has the typical girl next door look. Just hot enough so that you’re interested but real innocent and sweet to keep you guessing. He is okay looking. About my size. Average build, very little body hair with auburn hair and brown eyes. I am not sure if Laura would be interested in him but apparently I have no idea what her type is. Laura was appalled when I told her that the new couple may know her from her MySpace page. Personally I don’t care if people we know, “find us out”. My personal opinion is that if people are on these sites or attend these parties and they discover us, then we should be fucking them. More likely than not they are not going to ‘Rat us out to their friends”.
On the way home from the restaurant Laura made me stop at the liquor store – or packie for you Massholes out there – to pick up a cold bottle of wine. When we got home it wasn’t long till people started Instant Messaging us. The whole thing is very High School. Strangers and people we barely know instant messenging us but I have to admit it is exciting. Every time I chat with someone I get a flutter in my stomach knowing that some day we could potentially be screwing these people.
I was busy around the house all night. My ADD was kicking in and I can’t sit still for a minute. I started organizing my DVD’s, cleaning up the Playstation and my kids Nintendo Wii games, and blogging. Laura was chatting with Sara and Ron. I was starting to get jealous because I thought she was arranging to meet with Ron while I am away on business next week. She wasn’t.
Laura did barge into my office with her day planner in hand. “We should meet up with them again”, she said. I was a little apprehensive.
“The next week is nuts”, i said. When do you want to meet them again?
How about this Friday?, Laura said.
“Too soon. I have way to much work on my plate.” It was true. I have a shitload of work to do right now but honestly I was buying time. “How about a week from Sunday?”
Laura confirmed our meeting next Sunday with Ron and Sara. Honestly, if I get more sex I am down with this. (Reluctantly)
Last night Laura and I had sex. It wasn’t the passionate, wild sex that I love. It was the shit we have been together too long and I know my husband really needs sex, sex. I FUCKING hate sympathy sex. Part of me thinks it would be fun to meet with Sara and Ron again. I know Laura is way into Ron even though she may not admit it. Honestly, I would rather fuck Beth (See People I reference in my Blog) as she is more my type but I know Sara would really go out of her way to please me. I have never had that. Laura as much as I love her is all about her when it comes to sex. I think Sara would rock my world which is why I agreed to have them over to our house in a week!
Again. This summer is about to heat up! What should I do?
Happy Birthday America! July 7, 2008
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I love the Fourth of July as much as I love America. What a perfect holiday. All the Fireworks, good food, some stogies, booze and good company really make you appreciate the freedoms we are afforded in this great nation of ours. We had a “Vanilla Party” – A new swinger term I learned meaning a non-swinger party – on Thursday night and it poured like a bastard. It was still a lot of fun and it was a much needed break from work. Now the weekend is coming to a close and I am hanging out in the home theatre with my laptop reading some E-Mail. As soon as I sat down I got a IM from Sara. Now Sara isn’t exactly Angelina Jole but she is intelligent, kinky and I have a feeling this summer is just starting to heat up. Since I was a little buzzed I took the opportunity to clear the air between us and I to ask her how she thinks Laura perceived the whole event. Sara told me that Laura told her (confused yet) she, “enjoyed herself more than she thought she would”.
JACKPOT!
I pressed her for more details and I did learn more about Laura. I firmly believe that Laura REALLY enjoyed herself at the orgy and she has been playing it cool with me to see if I was all gung ho about doing it again. I asked Sara her about her fantasies since I don’t think I ever actually asked her what SHE was looking for. Most of them revolved around her getting to “really know” another couple and preferably she would like to spend some quality “alone” time with the other woman. I told her I was freaked out by the thought of Laura with someone else alone. I think I would be REALLY jealous picturing Laura fucking, sucking, and god knows what else with another man (or woman) while I am not in the room. I am really afraid of the unknown. In my mind, there is a clear differenitation between having sex with people in the same room versus going off into separate tooms and fucking each others brains out. Sara said that she felt the same way I did but she ended up breaking her own rule the 1st time they did anything with another couple.
I learned some interesting things about Sara and I think there may be another meeting in our future. I am not super attracted to her but she may be able to fulfill a few of closest most intimate fantasies!
To be continued…
Orgy Aftermath July 4, 2008
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So it’s been a while since I last posted. I have been super stressed at work and have been putting in crazy hours. This week I worked three eighteen hour days trying to finish up a proposal we have no shot at actually winning. It was good in a way because It gave me something to focus my attention on. There was a solid week there where all I could think
about were the events of the Saturday Night orgy. I still play it back in my mind to try and come to terms with what we actually did. I thought for sure there would be some potential fall out between Laura and I but so far that isn’t the case.
The whole experience has been a trip. For me it was a sexual dream come true. Look at it this way. I got to make out with two chicks plus my wife. I got to watch my wife make out
with two chicks (and two dudes but I block that out). I touched both girls EVERYWHERE and got to explore another
womans perfectly shaved pussy with my tounge as my wife was getting eaten out by another girl. I got oral sex from one of the girls and I got to see Laura getting fucked doggy style by another guy while I was busy with Sara. – This actually turned me on quite a bit and it is something I think I need to explore in anoth
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If I had to do it all again (and I hope I get the opportunity) I would have preferred that we didn’t go back to the hotel room with Sara and Ron. It was fun when we were all making out on the dance floor but I don’t think under normal circumstances – Less Drunk – I would have wanted to have sex with Sara (unless it was Anal and then even still I am not so sure). It would have been better to focus entirely on one other couple. Six people in a hotel room naked and fucking was just waaaaay to much going on for my brain to handle. I remember looking up from licking Beth and seeing her with a cock in her mouth and then I look to my right and see Laura getting eaten out while she has a cock in her mouth. I actually didn’t see her with the cock in her mouth but she has since told me she was.
I have been feeling extremely close to Laura after the experience. I think it really opened my eyes to a lot of things. I notice that I am way more attentive to how she is feeling. In a way I sort of feel like the chick and I feel she is acting more like a guy. After my proposal was submitted and the kids were in bed I smoked a little green and pressed Laura for her thoughts on the whole experience.
What happened on Saturday? I still don’t know if you actually enjoyed yourself or if you are mad at me or what the deal is. I asked her.
Why would I be mad at you?
I don’t know. Maybe you are jealous that I was licking another woman and things got out of control?
I was a little jealous when I though I saw you fucking Beth but I wouldn’t have done anything if I didn’t like it or I wasn’t into it.
Wow. Okay. I didn’t know what you were thinking the whole thing just happened soooo fast. I mean we were literally 30 seconds into the hotel room when I saw Sara lie you on the bed, rip your pants off, and start eating you out!
I know it happed so fast. You looked like a deer in headlights.
Damn right I did! I didn’t know what the fuck to do! I liked Beth but she had Ron licking her while i was kissing her neck. It was a little weird….So was Sara good at oral?
Sara was amazing the way she licked me but I would have liked to go down on Beth! I still haven’t tried pussy yet.
I asked Laura if she felt closer to me or farther apart.
“About the same”, she said casually.
I feel closer to you and I am surprised you don’t feel closer to me
“Why do you feel closer to me?”
Because we both shared a crazy experience that only you and I know about. You work friends, your family, when I look at you now I know in my mind how wild you are and its our little secret!
Yeah. I guess if you put it that way I do feel closer to you.
G Thanks!
After that I asked her what her favorite and least favorite thing was that night.
Favorite
Kissing a girl and getting eaten out by a girl.
Least Favorite
Getting fucked doggy style by Ryan. He was apparently too rough. (Beth likes it rough FYI)
Final Thoughts – Feedback
I would welcome any and all comments and feedback on the whole experience. Despite the pretty good conversation with Laura I am still not certain where we stand on this. I suspect that she would be willing to do it again. I would imagine if she didn’t want to do it I would know. A couple of comments she made make me feel like she would try this or other variations of swinging. In the car on the way home from the hotel that night I could have sworn she said, “I still haven’t had a MMF threesome or tasted pussy”. Second, during our conversation above she said she kind of liked the fact that there were six people in the room with naked body parts all spread out on the bed. She said she felt like she was in a porno.
Amen to that!




